Well the surprise news was this morning I tested my water, and waited for it to turn purple, and waited, and then I realized, it wasn't purple at all. I tested a second time, and sure enough... I got blue!!! 0ppm! Tomorrow we'll know for sure, to ensure I get a second day of 0ppm after dosing a full stock amount of ammonia. I'm not sure if the big water change was the breakthrough to get out of the stall for me, since it was only two days ago that I changed it. The cycle was technically started on 11-13, so it's been going for 36 days. (Seems like forever...)
I'm pretty sure I'll be getting a Dwarf Gourami, and 7 or 8 Neons. Is there a certain order I'd need to put them in, or can they go in together? (I'm not concerned about bioload so much as territory establishment/low stress.)