okay, when I first started my 20 gallon, i stocked it with 10 neon tetras.... after about a week, they basically started to chase each other, and ended up with nipped fins. they all died except for on, and it has been living in my tank for two years now... I added some harlequinn rasoras, and at least one of them looses coloration and dies. what is going on here? is the same thiing happeneing over again like with the neons? or is it something different?