You've got a good point. Coming to this site and reading everything I have read, and trying everything I have tried has definitely changed the way I view this "hobby". Before finding this place, I just had aquariums with fish.....and did minimal maintenance. Now I'm obsessed. I just wish I knew why I couldn't get the HitH under control. It's frustrating as hell......
daveedka said:
Go way back to the start, you had a large fish in a 55g, and had never heard of HITH. by the time you got Gulp into a bigger home he had already developed HITH, and you did your level best to control it, and make things better for him.
I thought I got him over to the 110 before he was "too big" for the 55.
Here's a pic a few days before the transfer just for reference:
Ignore the boringness of the 55....I had taken everything out by then. I know I screwed up and didn't keep up with the water much in the 55....but I'm not sure the problems were caused by his size vs. the aquarium volume.
I also know I probably screwed up feeding him goldfish in his first few years.....yet another thing I learned from this forum. Oh well, I can't turn back time.
You are probably right about trying again though. I have a much better filtration system, plenty of room, and much better maintenance habits.....but it might be time to try some different type of fish. Oscars are a lot of fun, but some days I just want to stare at the aquarium and watch fish swim around and act "natural". Gulp wouldn't let me do that... If I was anywhere in the room he was at the top of the tank begging for food.
This sucks. My wife just came home from work and we are going to head out and buy some clove oil. I never thought I'd become so attached to a fish......but it happened. Maybe I can pay a neighbor to come over and move gulp to the clove oil/water bucket.....
I keep wondering if I should give him a few more days, as he still seems to have a lot of energy......but his back is still bleeding, he still won't eat, and he's missing a lot of skin. O.K. enough rambling and moaning.......I'll spare you guys.
Thanks for all the input and advice from everyone. Maybe someone out there will read this thread and learn something from it.