I take it the word "patience" isn't in your vocabulary? Where in the "cycling" thread did it say that it would be ok to add fish after just 1 week (other than the "use damsel to cycle" method, which is highly frowned upon)? I wouldn't even think of adding a fish to a new tank until week 6.
IMO you have already messed up your tank. You should not have done that 5G water change until at least 21 days after setup. You broke the cycle doing so. You are supposed to watch the ammonia rise for about a week, then start to slowly drop and nitrites start to rise, then fall to zero and nitrates rise to around 20. That is the point you are supposed to do your FIRST water change.. at the point where you have zero ammonia/nitrites and nitrates are a little high. The water change will get rid of the nitrates. By doing the water change early, you have removed some of the ammonia and nitrites, which slows down the cycle to a crawl, making you just about have to start over again on the cycle.
I am a stay at home mom and teeball coach so patience is my first name....
anyways I was taking the advice from ppl here at this site as how to cycle my tank, and I was told to do the water change IMMEDIATELY when my ammonia level spiked above 1.0 so I did...i did watch the trites and trates both rise and fall. I don't nkow if the fact that I was using already seeded sand(straight from someone else's tank all but 5lbs.) was the trick to why my tank has cycled so fast and that the only thing that would have die off was the live rock which was supposed to be already fully cured..
either way, sorry you feel that i didn't wait out the process, but i did not put the damsels in any harm. as soon as the levels rose I got rid of them to someone with a 125 gal reef. that has been up for 2yrs now..they are still alive and well in his tank.
I have not checked the water parems yet today because I have been PATIENTLY dealing with a very very sick 2yr old, but will do so now that he is napping. If for any reason the levels are high I will do a water change.
Glad you think that my tank is a failure.....thanks for taking the time to message me just to be negative, but thank you for typing out the cycling process for me, I will (honestly) put that to use once I get this tank set up and start my 55gal salt tank.
Ace I have seen pics from you and read your posts a ton and do greatly appreciate any help that you would have for me from here on out. *truce?