You never did say if you did the large water change someone suggested. I'm guessing you did since your nitrate level went down from 40ppm to only 5ppm but let us know. In the future, there's no need to do a large water change when fishless cycling... until the end when you know that the fishless cycling process is complete and working. The except to this is if your cycling stalls due to excessive ammonia or nitrites or low KH level and then a PWC is needed to kick start things.
EDIT - scratch the question about the large water change. I missed in post 13 where you said you did do one.
Keep testing ammonia/nitrite daily.. and nitrate if you like but it's not necessary. Dose the ammonia up to 3-5ppm (3-5 drops per gallon) and when you see them both dropping to 0.0ppm for two consecutive days, you can test the nitrates and they should be up pretty high and then you know you're cycling!!!