There is an I in mafIa
Thats pretty much how I fee,as long as you do your best fine,l but when it comes to playing a sport when records do count then a player that isn't as good isn't going to get playing time.
I'm toooooo competitive. I got ripped,by my wife, for yelling at my daughter and kicking her off my team in family volleyball. The ball went right to her but she was to busy pulling the petals off a flower. If you're not even going to try then get out of the way. She has learned her lesson and while she isn't a great player she can keep the ball alive long enough for the others to score. The motivation of knowing that if she doesn't try she won't play made her play her best.Now my wife understands why I was hard on her that game.