Wow...def wasn't expecting that response...but that might be my fault as I haven't explained properly.
Regardless, I understand all of your concerns completely. While some of your reactions were a tad melodramatic...actually more than a tad... I still know where you're coming from. I understand fully that living creatures are not toys and never intended them to be so.
Since I am either related to the parents or close friends w/whoever I was planning on giving the fish to; I am more than confident that the fish would be taken care of. I have already discussed this gift with the parents, not because I feared the fish would be neglected - these are all good kids; but because I didn't want the parents to be burdened as they would have to help the children feed/clean/care for the fish. Furthermore, None of the children are under the age of 8 and a child of 8 or older, with help from their parents, can surely care for a single betta fish. Lastly, if children can receive puppies or birds or any other animal that requires equal or more care and time, I can't fathom why a child shouldn't receive a fish as a pet. Some of these kids have actually seen/helped me care for my own betta and have shown interest in having one.
I do have a betta fish right now, I've had it for 7 months and I myself got it as a gift so I see no problem in doing the same if I know the fish will be cared for. He's got a nice round 3 gallon bowl and is very happy w/me. And if you guys are saying a filtered tank is required for one betta fish; that's the first time I've read that and I've been on betta info pages all day...so I'm def not taking that advice.
The question about my fish's tank was completely irrelevant but I answered it anyways because I'm not a rude person...unlike the person who posed the question.
As for the MightyQueenPixie...i'm not surprised your fish live better (and probably more peacefully) than you do as you lack basic social interaction skills... with humans at least.
Everyone else, thanks for replying
Regardless, I understand all of your concerns completely. While some of your reactions were a tad melodramatic...actually more than a tad... I still know where you're coming from. I understand fully that living creatures are not toys and never intended them to be so.
Since I am either related to the parents or close friends w/whoever I was planning on giving the fish to; I am more than confident that the fish would be taken care of. I have already discussed this gift with the parents, not because I feared the fish would be neglected - these are all good kids; but because I didn't want the parents to be burdened as they would have to help the children feed/clean/care for the fish. Furthermore, None of the children are under the age of 8 and a child of 8 or older, with help from their parents, can surely care for a single betta fish. Lastly, if children can receive puppies or birds or any other animal that requires equal or more care and time, I can't fathom why a child shouldn't receive a fish as a pet. Some of these kids have actually seen/helped me care for my own betta and have shown interest in having one.
I do have a betta fish right now, I've had it for 7 months and I myself got it as a gift so I see no problem in doing the same if I know the fish will be cared for. He's got a nice round 3 gallon bowl and is very happy w/me. And if you guys are saying a filtered tank is required for one betta fish; that's the first time I've read that and I've been on betta info pages all day...so I'm def not taking that advice.
The question about my fish's tank was completely irrelevant but I answered it anyways because I'm not a rude person...unlike the person who posed the question.
As for the MightyQueenPixie...i'm not surprised your fish live better (and probably more peacefully) than you do as you lack basic social interaction skills... with humans at least.
Everyone else, thanks for replying

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