I raised them both since they were about a quarter size... I got the male first and he was bigger, so I thought he was older, but the female grew faster than he did, and is now bigger than him.
I have had them both for about a year, maybe 14 months...
I didnt think they would lay eggs till about 18 months so this has been a suprise..
I havent seen the male make any attempt to fertilize the eggs.. but he acts all wierd and stuff around the female, so maybe he isnt ready yet.. I dont know, but I have a few empty 40 gal breeders I can set up for them if needed... hopefully!