Don't you hate being followed?

[J double R]

hmm.... thats fair. i guess i just read too much into it... haha.

 

[chefjamesscott]

I completely agree with what you are saying. The guys, in my original post, actions were the creepy, leering, following you kind. Everyone should know the difference and learn to defend yourselves or act appropriately in these types of situations.

if i might offer you some very easy help if you ever find yourself in a situation where you know you gonna be in trouble the one word you can yell that will bring help the fastest is FIRE for some reason people come running when they hear that word

now if you want to take the time and effort to learn some very easy self defence the one i would recommend as the best an easiest to learn for someone is KRAV MAGA just do a net search on it

one of the best weapons you have at your disposal is your keys if you hook your finger through the ring and flail them at someone eyes real fast they can be a very good weapon

i would advocate everyone taking some self defense classes as it is best to know what to do when you have to if you were here with me in the same room i could show you five or six very easy manueuvers that a 12 year old child can do to a full grown adult that will take them down an give the time to run but most assuredly the above form of self defense is easy to learn and most effective

another very good weapon perfectly legal that will for sure blind a person is areosal hairspray products they have a good swath and hey they are not a restricted weapon but since you are in the states and not canada im sure there are other forms of protection that you can get liscences to carry if you know what i mean :dance2:


may you never find yourself to be in the situation where you have to do such things but if you do may you have been prepared to deal with them its kinda like insurance policies you never need them till its to late

 

[J double R]

another very good weapon perfectly legal that will for sure blind a person is areosal hairspray products they have a good swath and hey they are not a restricted weapon but since you are in the states and not canada im sure there are other forms of protection that you can get liscences to carry if you know what i mean :dance2:

and when you read the label it says "it is against Federal law to use this product in a manner inconsistent with its labeling"

I don't think i'd go recommending things like that.... sounds like a legal nightmare waiting to happen, unless a lawyer told you it was ok to give such advice, of course. :headshake2:

 

[Bubbles2112]

i was in the bathroom, doing normal bathroom stuff lol and i went over to wash my hands and this man comes walking.......

I agree with petluvr. This is a crime and perhaps because of your youth nothing was done when you reported it. WM would face serious $$damage if you reported it and then got assaulted by this perv. *** has nothing to do with this.....this is one person trying to take advantage of another--a power trip. Male rape is very under reported because of the humiliation factor (I was trained as a victims advocate).

 

[BadFishPa]

It could be partially your fault if your having alot of problems with this. What you wearing to the store? As a defense for guys all around ,theres nothing more annoying than some beautiful Girl-Woman walking around in skin tight skimpy clothing at the supermarket or wherever running her mouth about every guy looking at her..Im not saying there are not Perverts and etc who would get all wierd on ya in whatever you are wearing. But dont dress for attention if your not looking for some...Gotta think about your saftey in this sometimes horrible world..

 

[caitylee]

Well if you find a loose t-shirt (not low cut at all) and jeans sexy, then yes I dress sexy every day

I am no where near provocative in any of my wardrobe. Oh and I am small chested so thats not it either lol.

But I completely understand what you are saying with wardrobe.

 

[Coler]

one thing I learned through the years, a good way of NOT trying to pick up a girl is by stalking her with your friend while she's shopping alone in a store. lol...

wait...this is NOT a good way ?

durn ! bad news for creepy coler

 

[J double R]

Well if you find a loose t-shirt (not low cut at all) and jeans sexy, then yes I dress sexy every day

I am no where near provocative in any of my wardrobe. Oh and I am small chested so thats not it either lol.

But I completely understand what you are saying with wardrobe.

IMO, simplicity is better than smearing makeup on and squeezing into those ubertight jeans etc etc some guys pick up on that. I for one would hit on the girl who looks pretty while dressed plain and going about her business as normal, before i hit on the girl who wore the short skirt and high heels and is making an obvious attempt to be seen.

 

[caitylee]

IMO, simplicity is better than smearing makeup on and squeezing into those ubertight jeans etc etc some guys pick up on that. I for one would hit on the girl who looks pretty while dressed plain and going about her business as normal, before i hit on the girl who wore the short skirt and high heels and is making an obvious attempt to be seen.

Valid point I don't feel the need to dress up for attention, I don't even wear makeup.

 

[paperdragon]

It could be partially your fault if your having alot of problems with this. What you wearing to the store? As a defense for guys all around ,theres nothing more annoying than some beautiful Girl-Woman walking around in skin tight skimpy clothing at the supermarket or wherever running her mouth about every guy looking at her..Im not saying there are not Perverts and etc who would get all wierd on ya in whatever you are wearing. But dont dress for attention if your not looking for some...Gotta think about your saftey in this sometimes horrible world..

It's already been pretty well established in this thread that everyone having this problem here has been wearing baggy T-shirts or sweatshirts while it happened.
I've seen this same stuff happen to my sisters, and they certainly don't dress for attention. I don't recall anyone I've ever heard complaining about creepy guys following them that didn't dress conservatively.