I think that yes, they prefer acidic, dark water, but mine are doing fine without it. It's probably more important for wild-caught fish than farm-raised. The pH in my tank is about 6.9, and the water's clear. I wouldn't mind tannin stained water, but my driftwood never really put any out. I collected mine from a river and it was pretty weathered already. If you don't like the dark water you can run fresh carbon in the filter and I think that'll help. Otherwise, it should stop leaching on its own after a while.
I took a video a couple weeks ago of my glowlights' first (observed) spawning, seen here.
Wow, that female really is a lot bigger than the other two! I'd been considering glowlights for a while too... they school fairly tight? Or are they mostly just everywhere? I'm kinda getting used to the tannin color... its just very dark at the moment. I'm concerned that my plants won't get enough light...