Although I haven't had many people have the same experience as me, I have the same problem with pool filter sand. I normally just take the time to rinse it like crazy. The times that didn't get clear enough, I would get things cleared up after a full water change or two. It's a pain, but it's worth it when it comes out the way you like it.
I just went through this with a 10g I setup with Tahitian Moon sand....rinsed it a dozen times and still clouded my tank when I filled it up.... It went away after a day or so and is crystal clear now.... You should be fine.
ok, i tried the bucket method and it will literally take hours upon hours. I am going to run to the store and grab some panty hose and maybe silk fabric.