ahh.. acoustics.. did i mention i'm a sonar technician by trade? 
Sound DOES travel slowest by air.. and faster by water. sound waves passing through extremely dense objects, like steel, are INCREDIBLY fast.. the way sound gets quieter (losing amplitude)over larger distances is called attenuation, and that is why youll feel and hear noises traveling though walls and floors a lot easier than through the air. hence, fish are going to be exposed to a MUCH higher level of noise than we are, based on the fact that their water is physically connected to a line of solid objects, starting at the water, and then the tank, to the stand, the floor, and the walls.. so any sound that hits those objects is going to be pretty effectively 'amplified' within the tank, which is why in a lot of raised floor rooms, if you stomp your foot or drop something, youll see the fish in the tank 'jump'.. because while it was a loud noise to you, it was an extremely loud CRASH to them.
so even though the subwoofer is across the room, it can still be very stressful to the fish, and even the speakers can, although the higher frequencies will tend to attenuate much quicker and over a shorter distance, you'll find the bass is what bothers them the most.

Sound DOES travel slowest by air.. and faster by water. sound waves passing through extremely dense objects, like steel, are INCREDIBLY fast.. the way sound gets quieter (losing amplitude)over larger distances is called attenuation, and that is why youll feel and hear noises traveling though walls and floors a lot easier than through the air. hence, fish are going to be exposed to a MUCH higher level of noise than we are, based on the fact that their water is physically connected to a line of solid objects, starting at the water, and then the tank, to the stand, the floor, and the walls.. so any sound that hits those objects is going to be pretty effectively 'amplified' within the tank, which is why in a lot of raised floor rooms, if you stomp your foot or drop something, youll see the fish in the tank 'jump'.. because while it was a loud noise to you, it was an extremely loud CRASH to them.
so even though the subwoofer is across the room, it can still be very stressful to the fish, and even the speakers can, although the higher frequencies will tend to attenuate much quicker and over a shorter distance, you'll find the bass is what bothers them the most.