Originally posted by Heady
superstein - It was a little rude of you to call us silly for following the best possible practices, to say that we were completely missing your point, and to say that because we are not statisticians we cannot understand what you are saying.
Rather than resorting to insults as you did, we were trying to have a logical discussion of our viewpoints.
Heady - give it a break already. If I had said you are an idiot or called you some unprintable name, that would be an insult. However nothing I said could logically be viewed as insults by any objective person.
First, I never called you nor RTR silly - what I said was:
"Stocking based on the maximum size that even under pristine conditions very few fish will reach is extremely conservative and IMO silly."
"IMO, it is very silly to base stocking on what 1 out of a large number of fish may grow to in pristine conditions. "
Second, if you consider the use of the word "silly" to be an insult, then why did you choose to use that same "SILLY" word in a post much earlier than any of my responses. I quote:
from Heady 3/28/03 9:30am "Likewise it is IMO a little silly to overstock a tank with half-grown specimens and expect them to ever reach their adult size and/or be healthy and happy for life. "
I guess I should be upset because you were insulting me with the use of the word silly, huh?
Third, as far as missing or misstating my point - Yes, you missed it by a mile IMO. Is that an insult, well golly gee whiz I don't think so. Its an opinion I had based on your response which says:
By Heady "Would you keep an entire spawn of goldfish in a 10 gallon tank for their entire lives, just because their size at a month old would have fit the one inch of fish per gallon rule? No!"
Nowhere in any of my responses did I advocate such a thing. That is a COMPLETE misstatement or missing the point of what I wrote. What I suggested is to not expect all 5 yo-yo loaches you add to grow 5" each as you suggest - but rather go with the normal average adult length which is much lower -
and that is a fact in the literature - I quote from Dawes Complete Encyclopedia of the Freshwater Aquarium
"Up to 4 1/2" reported but usually much smaller". Let me repeat that last piece "USUALLY MUCH SMALLER" - so why stock based on 5" as you suggest when the majority of fish reach a maximum length MUCH SMALLER ????????
Finally you suggest you were trying to have a logical discussion. Well so was I. Unfortunately, you and RTR had your mind set that your own point of view was correct and could not see or agree with the point I was trying to make. Thats fine, both of you are entitled to your own opinion and belief - but so am I. Just because someone disagrees with you does not make their remarks insults. Do you really expect everyone to agree with you on these forums????? That IMO would be quite silly indeed. Oops, I better add this after that last sentence:
Disclaimer - the use of the word silly in the last line of this post should in no way be interpreted to be an insult to Heady .