It's a very difficult decision to make. It sounds like you've exhausted all your options, and it also sounds like at this point putting the ill fish 'to sleep' so to say, would be best for them, though it's hard on you.
I (thankfully) haven't had to do this, but my uncle, who has been keeping fish for a long time, has had to euthanize a few fish over the years. He fills a coffee mug 3/4 with tank water (one of those big "coffee house" coffee mugs, which he doesn't use for anything other than euthanizing and scooping out water for testing etc). Nets the fish and puts it into the cup, then he puts an alka seltzer tablet into the water, then once it's dissolved he puts the mug into the freezer, leaves it in there for a couple of hours.
Good luck, and I'm sorry for your losses.
~Tara