My first SW tank, stocking suggestions?

What are you wanting the tank to be? FOWLR or Reef?
Right now its a FOWLR.. but in the future I'd like to try my hand at a reef system. But thats in the future. I have about 2 watts per gallon right now.

Is there different species of tangs that will live in a 45g? I can't seem to find much that stay below 6"

My fiance likes dwarf lionfish, I think there kind of boring, low activity fish. I'd like something with character and thats lively.
 
A Yellow Tang tang in a 55g is nuts.

A thing to remember is fish in a tank in a home have stunted growth and never get even close to the advertised size in the wild.
 
Your tank looks great, keep searching for your centerpiece fish.. ;)
 
Personally I'd ditch the damsel but you didn't ask that huh? =)

In addition to the dwarf angel you might consider some of the wrasses such as the canary yellow coris wrasse, the flasher and fairy wrasses and by all means look at getting a goby. They have loads of personality, mine isn't the flashiest looking thing but it is the favorite thing in our tank. Even the dogs love the thing.
 
Personally I'd ditch the damsel but you didn't ask that huh? =)

In addition to the dwarf angel you might consider some of the wrasses such as the canary yellow coris wrasse, the flasher and fairy wrasses and by all means look at getting a goby. They have loads of personality, mine isn't the flashiest looking thing but it is the favorite thing in our tank. Even the dogs love the thing.
Thanks for the suggestions. My fiance loves wrasses.
 
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