Your EBJD looks male to me. His fin stucture resembles my largest male.
Update on my pair.
The 2nd spawn of eggs were layed last night. They look fertal. My male is now about 6 inches. I will post some pictures soon.
From what I read to have them spawn since they are sutch shy fish it is best to turn the flower pot backwards. This is what I have done but the problem is you dont see them much or enjoy them. So I have to wait for the right moment to get my shot of both of them together out of the pot.
Update on my pair.
The 2nd spawn of eggs were layed last night. They look fertal. My male is now about 6 inches. I will post some pictures soon.
From what I read to have them spawn since they are sutch shy fish it is best to turn the flower pot backwards. This is what I have done but the problem is you dont see them much or enjoy them. So I have to wait for the right moment to get my shot of both of them together out of the pot.