so I just got back from the dealer... Papers signed, if my credit checks out, I'll be getting it on Thursday.
I finally decided on... drum roll please... ... ...
A Volks 2008 Jetta...
I finally decided to lease rather than purchasing. It made the most sense for me. I'll be going through a few changes in the upcoming years, will be getting married soon, etc etc .. so I think leasing would be the smartest thing to do, so I can later decide with Rosie what we'd like to purchase together.
it's a nice car, very comfy, seems good on gas, 2.5 l, 170 hp, took the 6 speed auto tiptronic, standard air/cruise, etc.
So thanks again for all your help/advice...