I'm sorry if you took offense to my liking of petluvr post, I was just trying to give them credit for asking about such a vital part of fish keeping. It wasn't meant as a personal offense, I am sorry about the septic tank issue. Again, I was not trying to make you mad.
I understand where you are coming from, and I am sorry that I showed my butt... as you could imagine, any septic problem, not matter how minor(which i think ours is) is very stressful! I was wrong! Thats the problem with words in print. You lose so many levels of communication, and it becomes hard to get the original points. Like i have unlimited texting, but im gonna have it taken off, because with a text, you can read into things that the sender never even thought of.
I am sorry for my rudeness. I really DO appreciate your advice.
I am one of those people that if I cant see a reason or method, I dont get it... Im very practical and analytical...(my dad is an accountant...wonder where i got it from..
)... and being a Red Head..... well. WE DO HAVE SOULS.... but we can have tempers too