Thanks guys!
Anyone got a good way of telling my bf that rams butting heads isn't "cool"? I keep telling him that when they "ram" each other, they're fighting and even though they may not hurt each other, it's probably stressful to them.
I did have 5. I thought that was enough. This is why I love this site. I did lose one, so I'll pick up a few more when I get the glowlight tetras.
I now have cherry 5 barbs (love how playful they are!), 4 (soon to be 6) priscilla tetras and 2 melini corydoras (is that enough for them?). I'm planning to get a school of glowlight tetras and then probably a ram, or honey or pearl gourami.
Can I have both a ram and a gourami in this mix? I'm trying really hard to sort out my tank, but I keep finding fish that I really love...even after all the books and internet searches I've done. ha I'd really like to keep this a peaceful community tank and not overcrowd...although if I had it my way, I'd have a HUUUUGE aquarium with lots of fish. I've since had to put aside hopes of getting swordtails, mollies, platies...I just love them all, but not enough room.