Learning Quickly
Great Post! I wish I had known enough to do some research a few months ago.
My wife, son (3 yrs) and I went to a PetCo to pick up some dog food. As usual, we wandered over to the fish area, as my son really loves to watch them swim around. Totally on the spur of the moment, I thought it would be great to buy a fish or two. We picked up a 10g starter kit and two fancy goldfish. The salesperson never told us anything about water treatment, cycling, waste, or pretty much anything else. We were getting goldfish because we thought they were a low-maintenance fish.
The first mistake we made was a doozy. We had been to the beach earlier that year and picked up two jars full of pretty ocean-smoothed black rocks. I thought they'd look really good in the aquarium with the white gravel. In they went, without so much as a rinse-off. We also didn't know we had to condition the water - there's a lot of chlorine in our local water supply. Needless to say, the fish were both belly-up in about an hour. :-(
At least the PetCo wouldn't sell us another pair until we brought in a water sample. I'll give them that. The next time I left, I had two more fancies, a bottle of AmQuel and a bottle of NovAqua. "Coke" and "Sailboat" did pretty well . . .
. . . until my three-year-old decided to feed them one day while mom was napping and daddy was paying bills upstairs. Luckily, he came up and told me that he fed them. Alarmed, I ran downstairs, and sure enough, he had dumped an entire (relatively new) jar of flakes into the tank. The fish had eaten enough that they were no longer even interested. I pulled them out, and momma got up and cleaned the tank.
Unfortunately, she didn't know I had been conditioning the water. She didn't add the AmQuel, and poor "Coke" was belly up an hour later. When I saw him getting sluggish, I realized what had happened and added in the solution, early enough to save Sailboat but unfortunately Coke was too far gone.
Now I'm a lot more informed. The fish food is on top of the refrigerator where Max can't reach it; we have special buckets that are used for the aquarium to prevent contamination, water changes are done regularly, and I do research before making purchases.
The research part has paid off, especially since I found this forum. The other night I got online to find out if a frog would be okay in the tank with the goldfish. Not only did I find out that if would NOT, but I was able to diagnose a Black Moor that's been acting funny lately (see the post in General Freshwater about the "sleepy" Black Moor.
I'm now considering getting a larger tank to try some other freshwater varieties. Thanks to this forum, I feel a lot more educated and prepared.
Thanks!