I agree that noise is relative...
I have 3 eheim classics. in the cabinet, I cannot hear them.. I CAN hear my Fluval 404 2 rooms away! Imagine that. Are they silent? NO! If you open the door and listen, oyu can hear a little hum, and maybe some water movement, but even in a silent setting.. I live in the country.. and at night... I can't hear it.
My Fluval? I can't hear over ambient daytime noise.. tv, people talking, kids playing.. it's there, but you don't notice it(unless you try) but try to nap? Well.. it's not BAD, it rattles on occation(when it needs cleaned) but it's sort of a white noise.. like a fan... but you can tell it's water moving. It's not silent.. you know it's on... as i said, you can hear it over my eheims when I'm right in front of the eheims. Think about it, 3 eheims in the living room on 2 large tanks.. one Fluval 2 rooms away. You're right in front of the Eheim tanks.. and you hear the Fluval.
Still. I find the Fluval annoying for several reasons, so I plan on replacing it. I have puchased an XP3 to do this... I've heard mixed review on the noise from this unit, but It seems like a good deal, and I like the design. I'll let you know my experience. My friend has an eheim and an XP3, and he says that it's somewhere between the Fluval and the Eheim. Quiet is important to me... my friend doesn't care about the noise... if I don't like it, I'll exchange it for an eheim classic. Either way, I'll let you know the results.