Your existing pool filter media can be replaced. The reservoir is probably filled with pool sand now but I would need to see the exact system they purchased to be certain. They still sell diatomaceous earth filters. Remove the pool sand or DE and replace with polypads/sponges/bioballs/etc. If your father is handy, like you said, he could make sections out of plastic egg-crate lighting material or other plastic grate material to keep the various medias separated for easier maintenance.
The link you posted on page two of this thread was to the Leslie's pump .pdf document and you indicated it was a 3/4hp pump so that pump moves around 70-80 gpm which would translate to around 4200-4800 gph. Far short of 1X filtration but it's better than nothing.
You will still be able to use the existing filter system plumbing to regularly backwash the filter but you may also want to make a plumbing modification so the backwash does not go down the sewer, but rather into a garden hose which they can "water" the gardens with this super nutritious plant water.
You would need to make some plumbing modifactions so the return lines from the filter housing goes to the waterfall (instead of returning to the pool via the jets) and you want the waterfall on the shallow end of the pool for proper water flow through the pool back to the deep end drain intake to the pump.
DO NOT PUT A SUBSTRATE ON THE BOTTOM. It will a major hindrance to the ecology of the pond and trap/hold much more detritus making the water quality more of an issue. With a smooth pool bottom, they could also use the existing pool cleaning and vacuuming tools to suck up detritus off the bottom to keep the water quality in much better shape. Anybody who has ever had a Koi pond almost always regrets putting all of those rocks on the bottom since they become traps for detritus which causes ecology problems... especially in the overwintering process.
Here is a page of AquaArticles
http://www.aquarticles.com/articles/ponds/index.html all about ponds and make sure they read and understand the overwintering process as this causes most new pond owners the biggest problems, depending on the climate where they live. Here is my blog with lots of other DIY pond info.
http://goldlenny.blogspot.com/2007/03/pond-information-and-diy-pond.html