There are so many opinions being thrown around. Going to have to research some more on these swordtail fish.
Yeah, part of the reason you're seeing so much divergent data is that there is really spectrum of possible behaviors for each fish within a species. I've got both male and female betas and one of my males will try to kill any Cichlid it sees, and is quite polite around other labyrinth fish and even other betas, the other male is totally mellow around cichlids and wants to kill any other labyrinth fish, including the female beta and dwarf gourami (I think its because they were both red). So really I wind up advising to just get one large bright and intelligent species of fish per tank because you really can never know, but the capacity for there to be bloodshed is always existent. Now that being said if I saw somebody planning a community tank with Bolivian Rams and a male Beta I'd say NO NO NO, because I've seen one of our betas war with them interminably, yet another male wound up needing to being in my wife's community for a couple weeks with a pair and would actually swim around with them like they were a three fish school. Its just hard to say for sure, so, much of the advice that you receive will be based on the worst possible behavior that we know that species is capable of.