Yup, it is pretty sad that most websites can't agree on one thing...We have to get many different answers and decide for ourselves what we feel is safest for our little babies....But I have seen alot of pix here where the mom and pop are with the fry, so the proud owners know all about keeping fry with moms and pops ( and it seems we get better answers here than anywhere else).....but me and hubby wanted to play it safe and keep momma in the big tank and let the fry hide...we didn't know what to do in the first place...hopefully your mommy won't eat the young like that paragraph said...that would be sad and the fry just might be too big....so if she spits them out just move her back to the big tank (lights out), and raise the fry by yourself....everyone's experience is different...little fry like freeze dried shrimp and flakes..that is what we are feeding everyone and the new fry and our oldest fry named peewee (heehee)...we physically fed peewee brine shrimp (coax all the others to one side of the tank while I drop shrimp into the place peewee was hiding) and peewee is much bigger than when we first saw S/he...Hope its a she...well good luck and hope all your new babies survive...:dance2: