Then explain the difference between your lazy betta and other people's bettas who are actually taken care of in heated, filtered water.
So your implying I don't take care of my fish who's a year and about 4 months old... I normally wouldn't restate my side but I'll make an exception for the not-so-sharp folks.
I'll literally spell it out.
I f m y f i s h a n d y o u r f i s h a r e h e a l t h y ....
T h e r e i s n o d i f f e r e n c e.
You like watching your fish do back flips... I like watching mine sleep in a plant. I guess the only difference would be you waste electricity keeping your fish healthy... and I don't.
Maybe some day you can put your Betta's "feelings" aside and marvel at the fact it's one of the only pet fish that can literally strive in a bowl of water. Now that's pretty amazing.