meeting people from a fish store
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that, my friend... is a one way ticket to the friend zone. you blew it. you lost your chance... and she's got someone else on the radar.
your best hopes right now is that she's planning on keeping you to fall back on and her grand scheme fails.
good luck.
swift > smooth in the game of love.
ok guys but its hard to take you all seriously with the talk of stalking andfish sandwiches and all. how is waiting a few more days automatically = friendzone?
What was not serious about the "stalking" stuff? People get too caught up in the legal terminology now-a-days. If you had taken the advice then you'd know her work schedule (so you didn't need to keep returning to the store to check) and address (to send flowers). This would have all been taken care of weeks ago.
The reason you'll be stuck in the friend zone is because you are approaching it that way. Women know when you've put the necessary effort in. If you've sat around waiting for the right time for weeks then that screams "not interested enough to get past the friend zone".
Valentine's Day is rather tricky. From some perspective it is a lot of pressure to start a relationship around there. From others it is rather cheap since you decided to wait until after a major relationship holiday. That can just scream "I didn't want to buy you anything nice so I waited an extra week or so".
The reason you'll be stuck in the friend zone is because you are approaching it that way. Women know when you've put the necessary effort in. If you've sat around waiting for the right time for weeks then that screams "not interested enough to get past the friend zone".
Valentine's Day is rather tricky. From some perspective it is a lot of pressure to start a relationship around there. From others it is rather cheap since you decided to wait until after a major relationship holiday. That can just scream "I didn't want to buy you anything nice so I waited an extra week or so".
You should probably take a look at all new members for the past 2 weeks, any one of them could be her looking for her fishy prince charming;
because you don't appear interested.. you have 24/7 access to drop her a line, and have done nothing.
or she might just want to make fish sandwiches with someone.
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Valentines day is a holiday created to sell heart shaped candy and hallmark cards. A by product of that is that chicks buy into this whole "love" idea and you can use that to your advantage. You should talk to her asap and get in there telling her that you can be her valentine and you make better fish sandwiches than anyone else.
This is an opportunity for you to blaze ahead as the man of her dreams rather than her friend that she talks to her boyfriend about.
This is an opportunity for you to blaze ahead as the man of her dreams rather than her friend that she talks to her boyfriend about.
