In all seriousness, its a tough job trying to decide what is family friendly and what is not. Our mods VOLUNTEER a lot of their own time to do this job, and we need to be grateful for that. With out them there would be no AC and we wouldn't have a place to ask questions about our fish and have them answered. Yes sometimes it might be frustrating having a post edited but keep in mind that all the mods here a good people with lives of their own that are just trying to keep the forum running smoothly.
Also I might add that if you feel that your post was edited unfairly you can always calmly PM a mod to ask about it, or give an explanation your point of view. They are reasonable people guys, try talking it out with them you might be surprised.