i never thought i was untill my three year old angel died! i was really bummed out for a few days!
I "adopted" four White Cloud Minnows from a friend whose daughter didn't want to bother with the tropical fish hobby anymore. She had everything under the sun in that 15 gallon tank, and nothing seemed to live very long or suit the girl. I suggested White Clouds, and after a year of many community tank deaths they were the only ones to survive. So, to make a very long story short, I was asked if I wanted the only survivors as they were looking at a burial in the toilet bowl while still alive. I took those four White Clouds which are probably worth about $2.00 and have spent around $500 in the last 6 months. I started with a large fish bowl, progressed to a 3 gallon Eclipse system, and now they are in a 20 gallon long. I have four babies in a 1 1/2 gallon bowl who will join them eventually.In other words, do you love your fish? I haven't really become too attached to them yet, as most of them are so new to me. Also, I have trouble telling the ones I have in groups apart. I like my betta a lot, but I haven't really become emotionally attached to him. I mean I'll be very sad the day he dies, but I don't really rush out of bed to greet him in the morning. To be honest I don't think fish are too much of the kind of "loving pet" compared to a bird or a dog.
I can distinguish my 4 White Clouds from each other also. They have unique habits and characteristics. The dominant male reminds me of my old Chihuahua! Pushy, small, but oh so cute!Well, I can tell each of my panda cories apart...... My husband calls it obsessive, I call it observant. I'm quite attached to those pandas.