for those who have daughters

My daughter is about to be 14 and her mother doesn't get why I don't want her to date yet. Her mother, very naive and sheltered, is married to a guy who was sheltered as well. Thus, they swing the opposite direction and give my daughter way too much freedom.

On the other hand, I was having sex with my 14 year old girlfriend when I was 17. I'm not proud of it and had I known now, I would have realized what I was taking from her that she could never give to whomever she ended up marrying.

My daughter isn't naive and we've had very open conversations, but since she turned 13 she's rebelled against being close to me and embraces her mother and step father since they let her do whatever she wants with no boundaries.

I think I'll just have to tell any prospective bf's, "I'm not afraid to go back to prison." Even though, I've never even been arrested. LOL

exactly!! what is taken can not ever come back. I have had talks with my girl since she has been little, the gift that is only given once is virginity) and what little and big boys want. she is beautiful ( see her picture in the Autism thread) I have raised her to know right from wrong, but boys really do want one thing, not all but most let there penis do the talking. boys are boys, I understand. I just want to help her into woman hood with out the middle man ( penis) yet :grinyes:
 
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Aren't boyfriend-girlfiend relationships a natural thing that's supposed to happen in life at some point?

by the way, how many daughters do you have? and how old are you if you do not mind me saying?
funny thing is, we change from everyone is doing it to....... not with my daughter you don't!!!:devil:
 
exactly!! what is taken can not ever come back. I have had talks with my girl since she has been little, the gift that is only given once 9 virginity) and what little and big boys want. she is beautiful ( see her picture in the Autism thread) I have raised her to know right from wrong, but boys really do want onee thing, not all but most let there penis do the talking. boys are boys, I understand. I just want to help her into woman hood with out the middle man ( penis) yet :grinyes:

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My daughter was on MySpace until I found out that some guy she met through a rl friend was messaging her with stuff like, "If we were together, I'd be all up on you." I messaged him back and said, this is her dad. If you contact my daughter again, I'm going to be all up on you.
 
My daughter was on MySpace until I found out that some guy she met through a rl friend was messaging her with stuff like, "If we were together, I'd be all up on you." I messaged him back and said, this is her dad. If you contact my daughter again, I'm going to be all up on you.
I like the last sentence!!
 
All I can say is thank god I have a son. AND another 10 years before I have to tell him to keep it in his pants.
 
Yeah, after hearing this stories, I switch my stance. Glad I too was blessed with a son. If the second born is a girl, I'll appreciate my underage son watching out for those punks when they're under 18.
 
could wind up having a daughter like my sister, she has made it plain as day that she won't be having sex till shes married (she is 16 btw). I probably won't kiss a girl till we're married let alone sex with a girl.

Ought to print this out for my dad though, he'd get a kick out of it. I rather like the application part. May print it out for future use, hehe.
 
Am I ever glad I have 2 boys. My freinds and family have girls and that is good enough for me. Just watching those little girls grow up and what they put their parents (especially the fathers) through makes me real glad my boys can bring girls home instead of my little girl being taken home.
 
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