My daughter is about to be 14 and her mother doesn't get why I don't want her to date yet. Her mother, very naive and sheltered, is married to a guy who was sheltered as well. Thus, they swing the opposite direction and give my daughter way too much freedom.
On the other hand, I was having sex with my 14 year old girlfriend when I was 17. I'm not proud of it and had I known now, I would have realized what I was taking from her that she could never give to whomever she ended up marrying.
My daughter isn't naive and we've had very open conversations, but since she turned 13 she's rebelled against being close to me and embraces her mother and step father since they let her do whatever she wants with no boundaries.
I think I'll just have to tell any prospective bf's, "I'm not afraid to go back to prison." Even though, I've never even been arrested. LOL
exactly!! what is taken can not ever come back. I have had talks with my girl since she has been little, the gift that is only given once is virginity) and what little and big boys want. she is beautiful ( see her picture in the Autism thread) I have raised her to know right from wrong, but boys really do want one thing, not all but most let there penis do the talking. boys are boys, I understand. I just want to help her into woman hood with out the middle man ( penis) yet :grinyes:
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