I think she knew she was overstocked but was hoping we would tell her her tank is fine. You're not going to get any enabling in this forum...the health and well-being of the fish come first. We are very willing to forgive mistakes that newbies make, there is a lot of misinformation out there that pet stores and aquarium companies dish out and most of us have been there. But when you say you're not a newbie and knowledgeable people give you advice and you fight us on it...
As for the fin rot, you should never "usually" have it. Damage to fins can occur when you have nippy tankmates or more commonly with long flowing fins, but a fish's appendage should NEVER "usually" rot away. Do you know what trench foot is? It is the rotting away of your feet from standing in filthy wet conditions for too long. Imagine that happening to your hands or feet. Imagine the pain. For your tank to be experiencing enough fin rot for you to use the term "usually" means that your water is probably disgusting. And since cories are bottom-dwellers, it is probably that much worse for them since all the waste generally sinks to the bottom and accumulates in the gravel. How often do you vacuum your tank? How often do you change the water? With that many fish in there (even discounting the swordtail fry) You really should be changing at least 50% of your water 2-3 times a week, ESPECIALLY considering you only have one crummy HOB filter...
People have tried to give you helpful suggestions and all you did was make excuses. But there is NO excuse for allowing your fish to suffer as they have. How can you, as a fishkeeper, even be close to okay with what you are doing to those poor animals. I feel bad if I can only get in one water change a week and all of my tanks are over-filtered and understocked. I just cant be comfortable leaving them for too long in water that they have used as a bathroom and living space without keeping it pristine for them.
As for the fin rot, you should never "usually" have it. Damage to fins can occur when you have nippy tankmates or more commonly with long flowing fins, but a fish's appendage should NEVER "usually" rot away. Do you know what trench foot is? It is the rotting away of your feet from standing in filthy wet conditions for too long. Imagine that happening to your hands or feet. Imagine the pain. For your tank to be experiencing enough fin rot for you to use the term "usually" means that your water is probably disgusting. And since cories are bottom-dwellers, it is probably that much worse for them since all the waste generally sinks to the bottom and accumulates in the gravel. How often do you vacuum your tank? How often do you change the water? With that many fish in there (even discounting the swordtail fry) You really should be changing at least 50% of your water 2-3 times a week, ESPECIALLY considering you only have one crummy HOB filter...
People have tried to give you helpful suggestions and all you did was make excuses. But there is NO excuse for allowing your fish to suffer as they have. How can you, as a fishkeeper, even be close to okay with what you are doing to those poor animals. I feel bad if I can only get in one water change a week and all of my tanks are over-filtered and understocked. I just cant be comfortable leaving them for too long in water that they have used as a bathroom and living space without keeping it pristine for them.