My home also uses a water softener; do yourself a favor and make sure it uses potassium chloride salt, not sodium chloride. Your fish and plants will thank you for it.
What is the existing pH, KH (carbonate) and GH (general) of your softened tap water? This will largely determine what you need to do in terms of chemical additions. Make sure you let your water sample sit out overnight before measuring. One of the users here (jpappy) mentioned early on to me when I was setting up my Lake Tang. tank that as long as the KH is high enough to maintain a stable pH, the level of KH is less important than the GH for the health of the fish. I have also found this to be true. IMO one of the easiest things you can do is to use a cichlid appropriate substrate (limestone content etc.) to help buffer the water without the addition of chemicals. Alternatively, placing limestone in a canister filter can also help maintain conditions that are cichlid approved without the addition of other powders or buffers. In general, you do NOT want to manipulate the tank pH needlessly.
The Seachem buffers are good products, but it can be far more economical to use baking soda or Epsom salt to control these parameters. Baking soda increases KH and pH but has little effect on GH. Epsom salt raises GH nicely but has minimal effect on either the KH or the GH. Depending on the levels you want for your specimens, you can experiment to find out what amount of each product needs to be re-added at water changes to miantain optimum levels. It takes some trial and error to determine the right amounts.
For example, I used a standard 'cichlid complete' substrate that helped bring my tank water to a pH of 8.2 with a stable KH of 9. I have no need to alter either of these parameters. However, the all-important GH of my softened water is a measly 4..... way too low for Lake Tang or Malawi cichlids. With each 50% water change, I maintain a GH of 16-18 by adding in 5 tablespoons of dissolved Epsom salt. The one commercial product I do use is Cichlid Essential to restore certain trace minerals that are removed via softening and that are important to cichlid health.