Water softener and African Cichlids...

There are some pics of the peacocks I had in my Photobucket tank so you can see the color I am talking about. They were all bought out of 'assorted Africans' tanks, none were the expensive, high-end ones.
 
I have a water softener set up at home and plan to keep african cichlids in the very near future. I think my only solution is to use buffers. There is no store a 55 Gallon bucket of non softened water. Which buffer would you recommend? I searched up Seachem and they have 2 products, one is cichlid lake salt and one is Malawi/Victoria buffer, I think seachem recommends you to use both of them, what do you guys do?

OT: For those who live in Ontario, Toronto, do you know where to get limestone or pool filter sand? there is this rumour and silica sand is not being sold in Ontario anymore, is this true? Will I have to settle with something else?

You should have a faucet the bypasses the water softener (usually a kitchen sink) or find a way to bypass it manually. Test that water and post the results.

I always forget how exactly water softeners work but the end result is a near zero GH/KH but water that is higher in TDS (total dissolved solids). I would bypass the softener if possible rather than adding salts to water already high in TDS.
 
Thanks reptileguy2727, I like COLOR in my tank however, the wife gets angry with fish beating on each other then i have to hear it from her. I want fish that have color, peaceful, and can thrive in my high PH water. ANOTHER QUESTION ON SUBSTRATES, is the argonite reef sand ok to use with africans, my dealer says you cannot use that with anything but salt water, but i like the way it looks. I can't locate any pool filter sand locally so i can eyeball it's appearence I see cichlid sand but it looks to dark & salt & pepper to me.
 
You should have a faucet the bypasses the water softener (usually a kitchen sink) or find a way to bypass it manually. Test that water and post the results.

I always forget how exactly water softeners work but the end result is a near zero GH/KH but water that is higher in TDS (total dissolved solids). I would bypass the softener if possible rather than adding salts to water already high in TDS.

Great advice... if you have no choice but to use the soft water, make sure your unit uses potassium chloride salt (not sodium chloride) as the softening matrix. Softeners swap out the 'hard' ions of Mg and Ca for for a different ion that is not as hard (K or Na). High Na is not great for fish, inverts, or for plants. High K has less effect on fish and is actually a core fert. for use by plants :thm:
 
Your water doesn't need buffering, and crushed coral doesn't do a good job of it anyway.

Course substrates like gravel, crushed coral, etc. trap debris. This promotes nitrate problems and more maintenance for you. I would stick with just a sand substrate.

Is the aragonite reef sand a live (wet) sand or dry in the bag? Dry is fine, wet has things beneficial for marine tanks that would just die in a freshwater tank. They are priced a lot more too.
 
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