Hmm, Jake. I've had both the mellowest of female angels &, like you said, the most "dangerous". I had a female "pair" that were very calm & laid eggs together every 2 weeks (wonderful snacks!). We introduced a young male & he was tolerated until egg laying time when he was gently, but firmly pushed away. That poor male flirted & wiggled as best he could but the old girls were immune to his charms.
I also had a group of 6 angels gifted to me. I thought I could tell genders, but no, the bossiest, most aggressive turned out to be female. She was a terror! So I understand what you said, but the other females & males in that group were comparative wimps. I'm not sure how they ever got to breeding with Ms Crabby the charging angel but they did. I guess you never know sometimes...Ms Crabby did work hard defending her territory...so maybe she had a work out too?