yea, id use that as a last resort. but still, nothing makes me madder than someone who misstreats animals and just doesnt care.
This is going to sound harsher than I mean it to but here goes.
It's his fishtank. I understand that it's frustrating seeing his unhealthy fish but when it comes down to it, it's his tank and his fish. You've offered him help in various forms and he's declined all of them. Sneaking behind his back isn't going to help a thing. It's not going to teach him and, if caught, could very well peeve him off. Remove yourself from the situation. I'm hoping you don't live at home so when you do visit, don't look at the tank don't talk about the tank, just act as if it's not there.
I view it this way, he's not going to take/get help until HE wants it.
I entirely concur.
I don't want any animal to suffer. But they are just animals, not people. He has a right to treat his fish poorly, and you have a right to not associate with it.
It disgusts me to imagine what someone here stated, that some areas have "animal cruelty" laws that violate people's private property rights regarding fishkeeping.
The last thing we need is another excuse for Big Brotherment to intrude in our lives.
Really? You honestly would rather painful death to millions of small animals than to have fish cruelty an offence and "suffer the disgruntlement" of having "big brother" coming down on cruelty? To me, that means someone has issues. Selfish, too.
i say see how many TANKS dad's willing to buy. i think those that have mentioned hammers and whatnot are problem solvers who see a problem and an obvious solution... take it from there...